I owe a lot to the service of sex workers. At a young age I already visited a sex worker. In fact, I was educated by a sex worker in Haarlem. As a 17 year old boy I knew absolutely nothing about sexuality. I was not educated by my parents.

All my life I was a regular visitor to sex workers and learned a lot from them. At the moment I also support a sex worker during the Corona crisis. She has been my regular contact lately.

As a visitor I came to sex workers for the affection; the physicality, but also the loving respect. It was a bit addictive at one point, but I was able to control myself. I was on the road a lot for my theatre-work. So I had freedom to visit sex workers.

I got a tumour in my rectum in 2016. I got a problem because of the radiation. I can't get my penis stiff enough anymore. Unfortunately, penetration is no longer possible. Now I visit an erotic massage parlour in Oss. This way I still get that affection and physicality.

Now I am 67 years old, in my life I have heard and experienced a lot in the field of sex (e.g. BDSM), but nowadays I only visit a massage parlour. That salon is a/my loving place to enjoy and relax.

Har from Oss

 

 

The first sex worker I visited quickly realized that it was my first experience with a sex worker and she put me at ease. This lady also gave me the first blowjob in my life. She wasn't in a rush, I paid for 1 hour and I have been 85 minutes with her. The second and third sex workers I visited taught me position 69 and were also very nice and sweet girls. These girls were strict about the time, but that is understandable. The fourth sex worker I visited (that was again the woman I had my first experience with) was last summer. On arrival she told me that because of Covid-19 kissing was not an option (fine, understandable), but after some talking and a coffee she started kissing me and after sucking me, she kissed me again. When we were finally ready, we talked for a while, while I was getting a back massage. I already wanted to get up and take a shower to go, but she asked if I wanted to stay a little longer because she thought it was so nice. After an hour and a half I was outside and again I had only paid for 1 hour. You understand that this lady will definitely see me again soon.

I've never had any luck with sex with girlfriends, no blowjob, no 69 position, no quickie against the counter, just straight forward sex. Whenever I started talking about something it was always no.

I haven't had a girlfriend for years now, so sex workers are a godsend for me. The sex is fun, of course, but I also like to be touched once in a while, even if it's paid. It does a lot for me. And yes, as soon as I'm done, I feel like a man again!

Final conclusion: my experience with sex work is actually only positive.

Booty lover